I’m bored. I’m restless. Work is becoming mundane. My flat mate is dull.
Nothing comes easy I get that. Achievement, self-development all happens over time, and over a culmination of habits done over and over. Reading books, having conversations, setting small goals, big goals, creating systems.
Life is generally meaningless. I could get really good at my job, become a HR guru, grow the business, my property portfolio, get really fit, fix my teeth, become beautiful, build my social network, become charming and articulate. Travel. Eat. Dance. Watch movies and read books.
And then what.
The only thing right now that gets my juices going is achieving BIG all or nothing goals. [I don’t think this is healthy. I think the right answer is to enjoy every day as it comes or some shit like that]
- Have 10 investment properties
- Own 3-4 profitable businesses
- Become a single mum and a good one.
- Create a strong community of people around me (hardest one)
- Become a kinder, more generous and compassionate person
- Become the most organized person I know
But none of these will make me happy either. But I think I’m getting closer, I think need to be around more people that stretch me. Smart. Wild. Authentic. Positive. I’m too awesome and lately I’ve been feeling dragged down.
I still don’t think that’s the answer. its something to do with living life in every small moment and being grateful and being positive.
Areas to put goals in
- Saying No to GM
- Time Management/Planning
- Health
- Baby planning
- Investment
- Career development – outside of work
- Community!
Time Management: This is the most important one. It may get in the way of other things. But if I nail this one, everything else will happen.
- Timebox for the next day every day before gym.
- Visualization, watch boxing videos (my own and Youtube)
- Start sleep routine (calendar) by 10.30pm
- Wake up 7.00am every day
- Go to GYM (BC) 5 days this week
- Get my smear test done this week
- Talk to my flatmate about cleaning this week
- BLOCK OUT 4 hours to do this again, for the next week